I think there is something to be said about risking comfort for modesty. Those who choose to express modesty in clothing are fully choosing it less than they are being forced into it. It is commonly respected among different social groups and religions to honor the body and protect it from being objectified. But when outside elements turn modesty into a chore (aka hot weather), women are shamed and ridiculed for not only being less modest but in western culture. There is a lot of societal judgment about where the line between being modest and being immodest is. Some use their religious belief as a way to evaluate clothing choices, while others judge women for dressing “modest” in a way that appears old-fashioned.
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I think modesty comprises of being well-intentioned in the dress. My initial belief is modesty includes dressing in a way that does not draw any sexual attention towards the body and the body only. When I think of celebrities who dress modestly, the first name I think of is Billie Eilish, with her dedication to the oversized aesthetic. Maxi Sundresses cover up most of the body but are still breathable and can be made with a neckline that covers a woman’s chest. Knee-Length biker shorts are an efficient and utilitarian item that can be work year-round as streetwear and athleisure essential. My Catholic Haitian grandmother taught me more details about how to look for breathable fabrics when shopping in southern fashion, but modesty was way more important to her than it was to my own parents regarding me. The way I measured modesty was if my grandmother approved, it fit the modesty code.
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As I discuss with others, I notice that while modesty in my mind is about coverage, to others it could be about over attention drawn. Flashy sequins and Gucci logos all over a Pyer Moss jacket would not be considered "modest" to my mother.
My Mom: "I think sometimes I dress bourgeois. I think of brands and overall composure
you don't go for designer brands or the latest style. because someone whose modest doesn't follow the latest trends. Your grandmother is very bourgeois."
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Now with the pandemic, I predict that modesty will slowly transition into being defined to protect the body first before it is seen as a way to hide the body out of shame or conformity. It will be a concept more easily agreed upon by the two sides of the argument. Face masks, scarves, and longer hems will be an adjustment in warmer climates for sure, but it gives the world motivation to be innovative and unique with what we have at home.
When necessary, what do you wear to dress modestly? Let me know your thoughts.
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